December 26, 2016

Fear Fighting: Do you Live Fear or Faith? - A Guest Post by Kelly Balarie

Listen,  if you have not yet 'met' my friend Kelly Balarie --well then, you are in for a real treat! If you have... then you already know!  Kelly has a new book coming out on January 3rd (pre-order now!) and I am honored to be on her Book Launch Team. I started reading it this morning and you guys--the timing is precious with a New Year and all the thoughts of Freedom and Fresh Starts and Do Overs and oh my goodness, if when we get Fear off our backs... we fly!

So, today, Kelly is sharing a bit about what Fear Fighting means to her. Enjoy!

Just yesterday, my friend told me her daughter has lice. 
I hugged that girl yesterday!

Would lice go from her hair to mine? Would I be cleaning the entire house, washing every sheet and stuffed animal, and pulling a thin comb through every inch of hair on my family’s heads from now until eternity? I can't handle this thought. 

Next time, fist bumps will trump hugs.

Fear is the plumbing of discontentment.

It is the spillage of hesitation and loneliness.

It is the brakes to love.

It is the bulldozer to close relationships.

It is the boundary holding you back from God’s unlimited plan for you. 

Fear is the rain cloud that always follows, the homicide to all God has, the breeding ground to insecurities, the shortness of breath that wakes you up at night, the cemetery of faith, and the artery blockage to the Spirit's leading.

Fear is wildfire makes you run so far that you find galaxies of space between you and your great maker. It is the blocked artery to faith. It is the burden that keeps persisting. It is the laryngitis to the voice proclaiming God. 

I hate fear. I’ve written all about it in my new book, Fear Fighting: Awakening the Courage to Overcome Your Fears.
It makes my eyes pulsate. I get angry at it. 

But, here’s the thing about getting angry -  the second I do is the second I have a deep gnawing feeling God wants to say something. Somehow, I know, if I don’t listen to it I’ll miss out on - amazing. 

So, I search and uncover God’s heart. What I come to is: "Faith, dear child, faith."

Faith says, you can. Fear says, you won't.

Faith ignites passion. Fear depletes it.

Faith brings hope. Fear fire hoses it.

Faith changes lives. Fear wrecks them.

Faith makes Jesus shine. Fear desecrates his name.

Faith charges lives. Fear zaps them.

Faith walks in hope of eternity. Fear cowers down to death.

Faith doesn't have to be huge. Fears always are.

Faith exalts Jesus. Fear bows down to the devil.

Faith speaks humility. Fear listens to pride.

Faith accepts grace. Fear hugs shame.

Faith knows it's not perfect. Fear thinks God leaves the imperfect.

Faith wins every time. 

Faith takes I-am-going-over-the-cliff moments and turns them around. Suddenly, you realize you aren’t going over the cliff to die, but to fly.

Where do you need faith? How can you create a second of space, before rapidly responding in fear?

I’ve found if I can just halt my response for a second, I have a second to choose God. And, when push comes to shove, even if we make the wrong choice, God knows, we always have next time. He is full of grace. He is rooting for us. There is freedom for those in Christ Jesus.  

Interested in fighting fear? Join the 4 Days to Fearless Challenge!

About the book, Fear Fighting, Awakening the Courage to Overcome Your Fears:

Author and Speaker, Kelly Balarie didn’t always fight fear – for a large part of her life, she was controlled by it. Yet, in her book, Fear Fighting: Awakening Courage to Overcome Your Fears, with God, Kelly charts a new course. Join Kelly, on the journey to go and grow with Christ’s bravery, the Spirit’s counsel and God’s unending love that squelches fear. This book reads like a love letter from God, while offering practical heart-calming prayers, anxiety-reducing tips, and courage-building decrees that will transform your day.

About Kelly Balarie:

Kelly is both a Cheerleader of Faith and a Fighter of Fear.
She leans on the power of God, rests on the shoulder of Christ,
and discovers how to glow in the dark places of life. 

Get all Kelly’s blog posts by email or visit her on her blog,
Purposeful Faith

You can also find a variety of resources for your fight against fear here.  

See? #yourewelcome... now you love her, too!

I'm also linking up with the lovely writer communities linked below:

Kelly Chripczuk  for #SmallWonders 

Holly Barrett for #TestimonyTuesday



  1. Anonymous9:03 AM

    Love the comparisons of faith vs fear! Kelly has written an awesome book!

    1. Amen! I held off on fully diving in until this week, because --well, Christmas! But I am already loving it and see how much breakthrough this book holds! So good!

  2. This is great! Kelly always gets me pumped up in the Hope of Jesus!!! Thanks for sharing!


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